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Ex Files: You’re lovely but …

01.14.17 | Life

“You’re lovely and all but I don’t play games and I won’t chase you.” Famous last words from yours truly to a guy I once dated in regard to him playing phone games with me harder than Grayson Allen trying to trip the kid from Elon.

Hindsight is 20/20 and if I could call foul play I would but giving attention to a thirsty player isn’t how I wish to spend my Friday night.

Instead, I am going to write to the lovely single ladies in my life. I hope that you know how beautiful you are and how worthy you are of love. Love doesn’t require you to chase it, it’s just there.

He’ll remember what you like, don’t like, who your friends are, who is important to you, and he’ll never miss his chance to celebrate you and make you feel loved.

Instead of spending your night wondering if love will come your way or if it will even get your phone to light up with a call from that one guy, know that love’s already there with you.

It’s in your heart and it’s the greatest love anyone can ever have because if you don’t love you, no one else will.

Instead of pining away with an unrequited love, celebrate yourself because you are the loveliest person in your life. #CheersToYou

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